The
Art of Womanhood
The Feminist
Movement tells us
Men just want to suppress
us.
We are equal and
maybe better than men.
Be aggressive.
If it feels good
do it.
God tells us
God made man
because he wanted a friend in His likeness.
God created woman because
He saw that man needed a friend and companion that was like him.
God did not create
man to suppress him, but to fulfill a role of friendship.
God did not create
woman to be a man’s slave, but a companion.
God created a
chain of protection and leadership – God, Man, Woman.
“Love and Respect”
We like to fall
off the bridge either way – either man does not love and so suppresses; or the woman doesn’t respect and feminates the man.
Respect is non
self-absorbed, uplifting, considerate, and makes one feel full of worth.
Respect earns love
that is kind, considerate, indulging, and full of respectful conduct.
To The Young Lady
You are full of
worth – you were the crowning creation – the icing on the cake.
You are one to be
protected, cherished, loved, and given respectful consideration.
You are not a
door-mat, a slave, a servant of man’s passions, or a second-rate creation.
You are meant to
be a friend & helper (helpmate).
As a waterfall to
a forest, as a flower on a path, as icing on the cake – you are the jewel of
God’s creation.
The Woman of God’s
Motto – if it is glorifying to God, if it does not demean me as the jewel of
God’s creation, if it does not undermine the sense of protection and leadership
that God built into our male counterpart – then do it.
Go ice skating –
skate faster than any of the guys – but when you fall allow that gentleman to
help you up.
Go snowmobiling –
climb all the same peaks as the guys – but when you get stuck allow the guys to
help you.
Don’t demand it – just be thankful when they offer.
Go chop that wood –
but let the guy know that he can beat you and you are proud of him for it.
Go shovel that
snow, plant the garden, feed the cows, ect. – but when the guy offers to help
or do it for you be a lady and make him feel needed.
My Dad’s motto was
that I could do all the rough and tough stuff I wanted to if I also knew when
to be a lady – the crowning jewel of creation.
The
Dating Relationship
Don’t be too easy.
Guys need
something to conquer and protect.
Guys might take a
cheap girl for a one night fling, but they will never marry her – she didn’t
show respect to them or herself and in return she got lust not love.
Don’t be forward.
Guys like a girl
that is not desperate – she is having a good life and really could take or
leave him.
Guys like to think
that they noticed you first – don’t be the one to hint at a relationship.
You are the
crowning jewel to his life and not the slave to his passion.
Allow him to work
for your affection.
Allow him to feel
as if he is amazing,
but that he just discovered that he is not
quite complete without you.
We are built to
nurture and they are built to conquer.
They have a sex
drive we will never understand.
Don’t tempt them
in dress or conduct – they don’t need you to turn them on to love you.
You don’t need
physical to be loved.
Love is a choice,
a decision, a friendship; the physical will follow then in its proper bounds.
Lust demands – Love
is earned; Lust can’t wait - Love keeps
the right time table;
Lust abuses – Love
considers the other above their own desire.
Girls, even you
who have maybe been abused or have fallen morally, you have UNESTIMATABLE value! Don’t
negate your worth. Don’t sell yourself cheap. Don’t believe the lies of our
culture and of our enemy the Devil. Don’t throw yourself in the path of any ole’
dude who walks your way. Wait for the man who will meet your highest dreams and
expectations. There are a lot of things that are worse than being single –
abuse, lust, divorce, single mom’s, wasted dreams, and a life of heartache!
Be of good cheer,
you were created so special!
God has a very
good plan for you!
